The Blood & The Bones

There was an odd comment left on a post the other day.  It was a post meant for someone I spent the last year on and off loving and hating.

It simply said “he’s married now” and I immediately knew it was not for the man I had been writing about.  I responded that it was clearly not the same individual thinking maybe the comment was just spam. I knew it wasn’t about the man who was my muse because, the sad truth is, I discovered this man I had spent 2019 planning a life with was already married and I was one of many girls he’d been leading on.

Yesterday an old friend shared some news with me about an ex.  News I was actually surprised but happy to hear.   And I started to put two and two together.

Normally I would not address things like this here but it’s clear that someone acquainted with a past lover.. a man I have not spoken to or about in over a year is following my blog.

Because of the person I am, I just want to say, I do not write about him.  What we had was what we had way back then.  It was very intense but it ended when it ended.  It took some time to get over him, as it can with heartbreak, but once I had I was glad that we never took it any further than we did.

If you are looking here for some posts about him then your time will be wasted.  I have moved on.  It’s been well over a year.  I wish him nothing but love and happiness.  And that is it.  Stay if you enjoy the writing but, if it’s because of the time he and I shared, perhaps you should seek some sort of outlet or counseling because it’s just not healthy.  I say that with kindness.  And if I’m being honest, I am not the ex you should be worried about.  I pray she never comes between you/her and him.

Good luck and may the universe bless you with peace.

LL