The Blood & The Bones

Are they really expecting too much from you?  Or just asking you for basic human connection/communication/considerateness/kindness/effort?

Are they really an overthinker?  Or are they just trying to fill in the communication gaps because they aren’t sure what’s going on/what you’re thinking/if they are wasting their time/if you really are into them or just using them?

Are they really crazy?  Or are they just calling you out on the unacceptable/inconsiderate way you have treated them when they yet again gave you another chance you maybe didn’t deserve?

Are they really trying to force you to change?  Or are they asking you to do some self reflection and evolve a little before you miss out on yet another great partner?

Are they really overemotional?  Or are they just sad that once again they thought this time it would be different and are disappointed in themselves for ignoring the red flags?

Seeing a pattern with the people you date and the outcomes?  Are they the problem or are you?

LL